The Parable of the Purse

The Visiting Teaching Message for May is to be selected from one of the talks given in our most recent General Conference. I loved Elder Cook’s “Parable of the Purse”, and knew I wanted to make a lesson aid centered on this sweet story:

When I was recently assigned to a conference in the Mission Viejo California Stake, I was touched by an account of their four-stake New Year’s Eve youth dance. Following the dance, a purse was found with no outside identification. I share with you part of what Sister Monica Sedgwick, the Young Women president in the Laguna Niguel stake, recorded: “We didn’t want to pry; this was someone’s personal stuff! So we gingerly opened it and grabbed the first thing that was on top—hopefully, it would identify her. It did, but in another way—it was a For the Strength of Youth pamphlet. Wow! This told us something about her. Then we reached in for the next item, a little notebook. Surely this would give us answers, but not the kind we were expecting. The first page was a list of favorite scriptures. There were five more pages of carefully written scriptures and personal notes.”

The sisters immediately wanted to meet this stalwart young woman. They returned to that purse to identify its owner. They pulled out some breath mints, soap, lotion, and a brush. I loved their comments: “Oh, good things come out of her mouth; she has clean and soft hands; and she takes care of herself.”

They eagerly awaited the next treasure. Out came a clever little homemade coin purse made from a cardboard juice carton, and there was some money in a zippered pocket. They exclaimed, “Ahh, she’s creative and prepared!” They felt like little children on Christmas morning. What they pulled out next surprised them even more: a recipe for Black Forest chocolate cake and a note to make the cake for a friend’s birthday. They almost screamed, “She’s a HOMEMAKER! Thoughtful and service minded.” Then, yes, finally some identification. The youth leaders said they felt greatly blessed “to observe the quiet example of a young lady living the gospel.” 6

This account illustrates the commitment of our young women to Church standards. 7 It is also an example of caring, interested, dedicated Young Women leaders all over the world. They are incredible!

This experience made me think about what I carry in my “purse”; what things I surround myself with and how ready I am to be an example and to serve at any given moment. With this in mind, I made a paper bag purse filled with activities and little surprises that help us live “the parable of the purse”. To make your own you will need the following:
3 paper lunch sacks (white or kraft)
2 pieces coordinating scrapbook paper
Free SeeMeVT lesson aid download (in English) printed on cardstock
ribbon for handle
button or other embellishment
sticker sheet

First take your 3 paper bags and lay them on top of each other, alternating the open ends and the ends with the flaps. Fold the bags in half and stitch together with a sewing machine right down the middle. You could also try stapling or hole punching (and tying the ribbon handle through the holes to keep it all together).

Fold your bags in half then glue scrapbook paper on the front and back of the purse. I used the end with the fold on it as the front of my purse.
Next trim out the interior pages of the purse from the free download, and adhere. The first page of the download has a strip of words to be trimmed out separately as tags.

Cut them out as rectangles with extra space in front of the words. I then used a small hole punch so I could thread the tags onto paper clips.

I happened to have these fun circular clips, but regular office supply paperclips work great as well. These will identify the meaning of the goodies in our paper bag purse, as well as keep them from falling out of its pockets.
The first pocket contains a sheet of stickers, and is clipped shut with the tag reading, “to cheer”. I thought it would be handy to have some fun stickers to cheer up a friend with a letter, or to stick on a child’s hand or nose when a distraction is needed. See a struggling parent in church or at the grocery store? Perhaps a sticker or two for the child will calm things for a small moment.
The next pages are blank to write down favorite scriptures and thoughts or journaling.

After that we have a birthday calendar, to record friends’ and family’s birthdays for the year – a nice place to be reminded of a special time to show a little extra love. I put some band-aids in the pocket behind this page closed with the tag that reads, “to comfort”. Paper cuts and skinned knees can be soothed in an instant!

The next pages are a couple of my family’s favorite recipes – perfect comfort food.

The last top page has the lyrics to the hymn, “As Sisters in Zion”, along with comments made by Elder Cook in his talk. The bottom page has some tear-away compliments (idea first seen here) to give to oneself or another person needing a smile! Cut the strips along the dotted lines, then glue just the top portion to the paper sack. Behind this are some pieces of gum in a pocket closed with the tag that reads, “to speak sweetly”, reminding us to be kind and gentle in all that we say.

Now it’s time to put the finishing touches on the paper bag purse. Cut a flap shape from coordinating scrapbook paper that will go over the top and partially down the front and back of the folded purse. I first used double-sided tape to adhere my ribbon to the underside of this flap.

I then glued the flap to the purse and embellished with flowers and a button faux closure.

I suggest you save the printable file on your computer, then open in Adobe Acrobat to get the best printable file (rather than printing directly from your internet browser). Hope you enjoy these paper bag purses, and the parable behind them!
Click here to download in French. Translated by the amazing Christine.
Click here to download in German. Translated by the beautiful Blanche.
Click here to download in Portuguese. Translated by the awesome Ana Carolina.
Click here to download in Spanish. Translated by the delightful Delmy.
Delmy has also translated this entire blog post into Spanish. Click here to visit her website.
Click here to download in Dutch. Translated by the brilliant Birgitta.
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39 Responses to The Parable of the Purse

  1. Mormon Mom Cast says:

    I love, love, love your site and ideas. I love that your handouts are more visual aid than anything else. Thank you for sharing your time and talents with me. (Oh, and everybody else)


  2. lanakae says:

    You did it again! You've got me all excited to go share this message next month! I love this talk from Elder Cook and that purse you made is so gosh darn CUTE! Can't wait to share this with my sisters!

  3. Rachele Funk says:

    I think this is your best project EVA! So awesome! Do you tweet? I'd love to follow you on Twitter. 🙂 @theinkboutique

  4. Shannon Gish says:

    I'll be using this for so many other things. Absolutely wonderful!

  5. Anonymous says:

    This is really cute….and might I add that I miss your posts in I Sing U Sing…

  6. Kristin says:

    Thanks, friends!

    Rachel – I don't tweet – although I have an account, I haven't gotten into the habit of using it. Maybe one day?

  7. Patty Ann says:

    Oh, this is such a wonderful idea!! It looks amazing!!

  8. Matilde Portela says:

    eu amo suas ideias, eu faço a tradução em portugué mais dou os devidos creditos, um beijo linda.

  9. Jeanene says:

    Oh my goodness. You are so clever. I am in awe of your talents. And that talk…I LOVED it. I handed out my super hero lollipops today. Thank you!

  10. CraftCrave says:

    Just a quick note to let you know that a link to this post will be placed on CraftCrave today [14 Apr 01:00am GMT]. Thanks, Maria

  11. Anonymous says:

    Oh, my! I absolutely LOVE this idea!! Thank you ever so much.

  12. Martha says:

    Oh, this is simply adorable! I can't wait to make them for my VT girls. I might even make one for my 4-yr-old daughter for fun. Thank you!

  13. Codi says:

    Thank you so much! I love this, and can't wait to share with my sisters!!

  14. Jessie says:

    You are amazing! Thank you once again for sharing something so awesome. I know the sisters I visit teach look forward to your brilliant ideas. 🙂

  15. KathyC. says:

    Thank you so much! I always make one for myself as well as my sisters so I can be reminded, too. XXOO

  16. Trilce says:

    I love this idea!!!…..i wish it could be in spanish too! 🙁

  17. Kristin says:

    Trilce – Spanish will be available soon. 🙂

  18. Janiece says:

    My daughter just showed me your blog!
    Thank you for such great ideas!
    Your #501 Follower :O)

  19. Jake and Lena B. says:

    THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for sharing your talents!!! Your ideas are just so dang cute!! I learn a lot from your visual aids and I know my sisters love them too! Thanks again!

  20. Rosengren Family says:

    I love this! We are planning a mother daughter activity with our YW for mother's day and this will be a perfect craft for both mother and daughter to enjoy.
    I am having trouble printing out the first page though. For some reason the text box with the story comes out completely black. All of the other pages print out fine though. Any ideas?

  21. Anonymous says:

    I love this idea! I would like to use it, but I can't get the documents to download. Can you help?

    Melanie P. (

  22. Kristin says:

    Rosengren Family – you may want to try downloading a second time. I'm not sure why the text box isn't working. If, after you've downloaded a second time, and it is still not working, send me an email at seemevt at hotmail dot com.

    Melanie – I sent you an email!

  23. Lana says:

    So cute but won't all the contents fall out if you hold by the ribbon? Maybe I'm putting it together incorrectly. Let me know if I'm doing it wrong.

  24. Kristin says:

    Lana – Because the items are so lightweight, the paper clips should keep them inside. The purse still needs to be handled gently, of course.

  25. Lindsay Steenblik says:

    I just printed the document, but the second part of the parable isn't printing correctly, it is printing with huge black line / bar through the lines . . . money in a zippered pocket. . . .and . . . creative and prepared.

    Don't know what is going on . . . any ideas on how I could fix this?

  26. Kristin says:

    Lindsay – I replaced the old link with a new version of the pdf. Try downloading again. If you are still having problems, email me: seemevt at hotmail dot com.

  27. wandering nana says:

    Thank you so much for this idea. I must tell you that our sisters get so excited when we bring them the handouts you have designed and I know they always look at them and show them to others because I keep getting calls about where the idea came from and I always share your site. I know that we are making more effort for our sweet sisters. I am especially excited about this months as I loved this story.

  28. Denise says:

    Love it-so beautiful. I can't wait to make it.

  29. Kira Rivadeneira says:

    Hey I loved your blog! Thanks for the cute ideas. I left a comment earlier, but it must not have saved. I did used Elder Cook's talk in my Relief Society lesson in church a couple of weeks ago, and now I am using my hand out for Visiting Teaching too, you can see it on my blog here:

    PS I was your 500th follower 🙂

  30. Brenda says:

    My friend called this morning and shared your blog post with me. I am brand new to your blog and you have won me over with this DARLING idea!!!!! Thank you for sharing your talents with us!

  31. Lorin and Angie says:

    As always… SUPER CUTE!! Thanks!!

  32. Betty Rollins says:

    This is amazing!!! Thank you for sharing it with us.

  33. Abby says:

    Brand new to your blog, and LOVE IT! Thanks for sharing your talents!! MY VT appt today will be so much more fun because of you!

  34. Anonymous says:

    Thanks for the cute idea. I will be making these for my young women class.

  35. Anonymous says:

    Thank you so much for all your wonderful ideas. I have an inactive sister that I visit. She loves all the little handouts I give her each month. She told me that they make her feel important – she can't believe I took the time to make them for her. Thank you for helping me let my sister see how loved she truly is:)

  36. The Nelsons says:

    I just want to tell you thank your for doing this site. I end up going visiting teaching by myself and it really helps me feel like I can do that if I have something tangible for to take for my ladies. Thanks.

  37. deerie65775 says:

    Wonderful idea!! This is the talk I used for my VT this month. Wish I'd found this before hand! BUT, my sisters may get this lesson again just so I can make this awesome handout!

  38. Jessica says:

    I just have to tell you that your site is absolutely amazing! I can’t believe you can just make up these awesome little crafts every single month, let alone share them with the rest of us for FREE! Thank you so much! I often find myself here looking for some crafty visiting teaching inspiration. 🙂

  39. Lucy Felix says:

    Dear Sister:
    Your blog is AMAZING!! Thank you so much for the wonderful ideas, and for you dedication and love. My mom and I love all the special details that you are always giving:) And thank you for also sharing some of them in Spanish!

    The Felix’s

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